After having a rough 2011 in more ways than one (I know, you're all sick of hearing me whine and complain about it) I have been really seriously thinking about New Years resolutions for 2012, and how to make this a great year. There is no obligation for anyone to actually read this post, as it's probably boring. But for me, I wanted to write it out so I can check back and remind myself of what I should be working on this year.
Now, there are the typical ones that I always want to do: Lose weight, be more organized, be more patient, be more awesome. But this year I REALLY want to improve myself, my family and my relationships. This year is the year I want there to be more joy in my life, and so I am being more specific about my goals.
Myself:
1. Play the piano more frequently
I LOVE to play the piano and used to sit and play for at least an hour every day. I haven't done that since having kids, but I want them to learn the same love of music I have.
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2. Personal scripture study
I've never been very good at this...and actually, my scriptures right now are still in Washington. Oops.
But this year I want to improve, even if it's just a verse a day.
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3. Keep my bedroom clean
For some reason my bedroom is ESPECIALLY hard for me to keep clean, and it becomes a catchall. This year I want a relaxing sleeping space.
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4. Eat healthier
I'm not talking a complete lifestyle overhaul, that will never be successful. But making some small improvements to start out with. I want to feel better and have more energy to keep up with my kids.
Family:
1. Family Home Evening
We were good for a while, but this year being all crazy and living apart, we haven't done it at all since July. Yikes! But this year we WILL do better.
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2. Family Scripture Study
See above description...it's the exact same.
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3. Get Out. Be More Physically Active
I want to go on hikes, walks, bike rides, camping, or just play in the backyard together. We've been a bit sedentary and boring in 2011, but this year we will enjoy God's creations more as a family.
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4. Watch less TV
We have already improved on this, but I don't want all of our "together time" to be spent watching movies or TV. I want to do things listed in #3.
Relationships:
1. Date Night
Marty and I haven't been able to go out on dates very often. This year I want to try to go out together with no kids, no distractions at least two times a month. So get ready grandparents. :)
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2. Be Present/Available
I want to really be present in my relationships with family, especially my husband and kids, and available for them. Take time to really listen to them, enjoy their company, be involved in their interests, put away distractions and just be together.
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3. One on One Time With Kids
Pretty self-explanatory.
So that about does it. There are some other things I will work on as well, but those are the big ones. It seems like a pretty long list, but it's doable, and I'm very excited for what 2012 has in store for my family!
It's going to be a great year no matter what!