As the New Year has begun, it seems like a large amount of people have the same feelings about 2012 - it was a crappy year, and they welcome 2013 with open arms.
We would probably fit into that category as well:
-Failed attempts and being blocked when trying to house hunt/rent/buy/build
-Great job opportunities for Marty not panning out (he has a good job, just looking for better)
-Failed weight loss attempts
-Past financial mistakes continuing to follow us
-Watching Ben go in and out of the hospital multiple times
-Hoping Ben would beat cancer for a 5th time, and having to accept that it wasn't going to happen.
But you know what else? We had GREAT moments in 2012 as well:
-Our little family all back together after time apart
-Paid off enormous amounts of debt
-Improved relationships with many family members
-Kids thriving in school and friendships
-Quality time with Ben
-Successful service project benefiting Huntsman Cancer Institute
So, our theme for 2013 is
"Focusing On Our Happy Moments"
We are going to focus on all the good, happy things that happen, and not dwell on the things that didn't go as we had hoped.
I created an "Our Happy Moments" jar with the help of my talented cousin
Whitney - who does vinyl, and we plan to fill this puppy up with happy things that happen throughout the year. We will then open the jar on New Years Eve 2013 and revisit all the great times we have had.
You can see the little yellow paper...Brielle already had a happy moment on the first day of the year. Good thing I got a GIANT jar.
This year will be a GREAT year, and we will be happy and look for the positive in all things.
Now, my traditional "resolutions" would be:
Get out of debt (we're SO close now!)
Buy our first house (which would undo goal #1, but totally worth it)
Lose 50 pounds (Or 5, or 10....the scale MUST go down)
Have weekly Family Home Evening
Laugh more often
Here's to a wonderful 2013, full of happy times!